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“ She thinks she’s in control 😉 I’ll let her believe that for a bit...” - 😳 Ezra pretty much determines how much sleep I get, how I dress ( to breastfeed) and what I take with me ( nappies nappies and more nappies...) - I spend half my days like this, half naked feeding or with vomit down my back... 😩 - But if anyone asks I’m holding it together, this is a breeze and no it’s not as tough as everyone said 😳🙄 #stronglikemum
If another person asks me whether I’ll keep trying for a girl...🤨👊🏾💥 Hands up if you have kids of the same gender🙋🏽‍♀️ My pet peeve right now is people asking if I’m going to try for a daughter next 🤨 ... I mean I’ve just pushed out a newborn. HOW are we having this convo already?! AND WHY?! - We’ve started this interesting convo over on @stronglikemumuk yesterday and it’s amazing what people get told! - Hands up if you’ve ever heard sentences like this... . . 🗯 “ ... but boys won’t take care of you when they grow up” . . 🗯 “Only girls, how does your husband feel”? . . 🗯 “Only boys, awwww are you already sad for when they get married and love another woman?” . . Or if you have one of each how about 🗯 “Oh they won’t be as close growing up” ( this was pointed out by NAME ). - WTF 😤🤦🏽‍♀️ Anyone else hear things like this? How do you feel? Personally I love that my boys can grow up as brothers. - Don’t get me wrong. I understand that it’s great to ‘experience both’ and I know that Gender disappointment is a real thing. I’d be lying if I said I’d never thought what a girl might look like, but equally I’m so happy with my sons! ❤️ IT’S AMAZING TO HAVE ANY CHILDREN 💯🙌🏾 and If I did decide to have more, it certainly wouldn’t be because I wanted a girl... it will be because I want another child! - Join the convo over on @stronglikemumuk ✅ It’s so important. Let’s shatter the stereotype ⚡️ Gender equality issues, even from such a young age! - Some food for thought maybe! Let us know how you feel 😘🙋🏽‍♀️ #stronglikemum

Shakira Akabusi 

Strong Like Mum Ltd, Hampshire

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